Before you break up with a cheating spouse, it is essential that you first figure out where he stands. Sometimes when a man cheats it is only because he has had a weak moment. He may feel extremely guilty about his actions and may genuinely want to make amends with you. Here are some questions to ask your unfaithful spouse before you pack his bags and throw him out of your home and life. You then need to move on to dating apps and find true love.
How Did You Agree To Get Involved In The First Place?
Before a man enters forbidden territory, he will go over all the reasons why he shouldn’t be doing what he is about to. If he has found a reason that makes it worth the risk, then you need to know what it was. Maybe there is something lacking in your relationship with him, maybe he isn’t happy, maybe for him the relationship has run its course. Find out what it was that turned the platonic relationship into a raging affair. This will help you take a well-informed decision for your next step.
Did You Feel Guilty At All?
You need to know whether or not your spouse felt guilty at any given point of time for his actions. If he didn’t feel guilty after the first time he had sex with the woman, you need to understand that he probably doesn’t care about your feelings and he doesn’t even have any respect for you. If he admits that the guilt was overwhelming, then maybe he genuinely had a weak moment and should be given another chance.
There you have it, points that will make you realize how toxic and unhappy your relationship has become and the fact that you’re probably still sticking around with your partner only because you’re comfortable with each other. You need to love and respect yourself enough to distinguish between a happy and unhappy relationship.